Me, a Sexist?
Trolled
Someone sent me an email re: Wingmam telling me if I didn’t answer their email they’d out me on their website as a sexist.
Hey, Google define sexist.
sexist
| n. | A person who discriminates on grounds of sex; someone who practises sexism. |
| adj. | Unfairly discriminatory against one sex in favour of the other. |
| n. | a man with a chauvinistic belief in the inferiority of women |
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I don’t discriminate on grounds of sex.
I do discriminate on grounds of biology, sociology, psychology and probably a lot of other “ologies.”
Since reasoning is, dare I say as a biologically more emotional and thus less rational, woman ;), sensible, I’m okay with that.
Some of you may find the above sentence sexist. I’m ok with that, too.
2. I’m not unfairly discriminatory against one sex in favour of the other.
Au contrair!
I’m fairly able to distinguish the differing characteristics of male and female sexes.
However, I can only hypothesis about non-binary sexes, because I don’t have personal experience and haven’t researched ad nauseam said sexes.
This might sound crazy, but I’m ok with innocent ignorance in this area, too.
There is only so much time to study everything in the world that’s important to everyone else.
3. A man with a chauvinistic belief in the inferiority of women.
Well, despite what some may think of me because of my high level of logic (yes, I’m being cheeky), I am a genetically born female.
As in, I have a vagina.
And…
I don’t believe women are inferior beings.
However…
Are women the weaker sex?
In some ways, yes.
Using the law of averages, males develop with more testosterone in the womb and beyond.
Thus, men — on average — are physically stronger with denser muscle and bone mass.
But women give birth and that’s like pushing a weird-shaped watermelon through their va-jay-jays.
That’s equivalent to a dude pushing a plum through his penile pipeline.
(You felt that, didn’t you, Sir?)
So my guess is women are stronger in handling physical pain. On average.
Is that sexist?
I think not.
What am I?
I consider myself a modern traditionalist.
modern
| adj. | Of or relating to recent times or the present. |
| adj. | Characteristic or expressive of recent times or the present; contemporary or up-to-date. |
traditionalist
| n. | One who holds to the authority of tradition. |
| n. | An advocate of, or believer in, traditionalism; a traditionist. |
| n. | A person who adheres to tradition, especially in cultural or religious practices |
I believe we all deserve an equal amount of love, honour, respect, care etc.
And I believe in old-fashioned — negotiable within a couple’s relationship — gender roles.
Uhuhuh, not so fast SJWs, that last sentence is subject to the one before it about love, honour, respect etc.
If anyone thinks I’m a sexist based on what I’ve shared herein, you’ve probably got more female hormones, whether you’re a man or woman.
Offended?
If yes, you’re on the wrong site. (I invite you to please read/reread the disclaimer in the header.)
Dear Troll
Really? Really?
I’m A-OK with non-compliance to your demand because —
- Bugger off. (British accent.)
- See “my” logic as noted above.
- I do not reward bad behaviour.
- I forgive you for being a twatwaffle. 😉
- Love is still the answer, fool. (Mr. T accent.)
I may or may not be a sexist, but I reserve (and deserve) the right to have a cranky, impatient moment with an Innocent Ignoramus. #Iamhuman
Suggestion: Follow someone else’s advice who matches your values.
It’s ok for us to have different values and to disagree.
God created us all… even the twatwaffles and sexists.
What have we (re) learned?
- Opinions are like assholes, everyone’s got one (including moi)!
- I will not be silenced. #freespeech
- There’s a difference between innocent ignorance and ignorant ignorance.
- The world would be boring AF if we were all the same.
- Love really is the answer.
Homework (bonus points for decoding):
- Self-care (love), so that…
- Curious dialogue, so that…
- Common ground, so that…
- Relatability, so that…
- We are all one, MoFo’s!
I love you. Yes, you, reading this, even if you think I’m a sexist.
If anyone wants an apology, this one still stands.
That is all.
I approve this message.
Xo AJ
twatwaffle
| n. | A contemptible person. |
Please support my free speech by buying my memoir here or spotting me a cuppa Joe here. ?❤️?
p.s. Happy un-PC Canada Day!
Next Day Second Thoughts
I felt kinda bad after posting this blog, but not bad enough to delete it.
Here’s why…
Why I Felt Bad
Twatwaffles need love, too.
But seriously, just because someone doesn’t know how to be effective in getting what they want (in this case, a reply from me), doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings and deserve love and respect.
Why I Didn’t Delete This Post
To remind us all, myself included, we’re all human, have bad days, and make less than loving choices when we’re worried, wired, tired, triggered or whatever the case may be.
Given the state of the world, many of us are feeling less than our 100% channeling Jesus selves. I am.
Also, I want to remind everyone, myself included!, if we want someone to provide something for/to us in a genuine and loving way, attacking or threatening isn’t effective, despite what rioters may tell you.
I still approve this message. x
